tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19834814123750434462024-03-13T08:44:31.762-04:00Out Loud in my HeadThoughts are always running around in my head. Some of them are from me, some are the Holy Spirit trying to get my attention.
Some of them escape out of my mouth. I'm not always sure if I actually said them out loud or not, so I'm writing them down.karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.comBlogger139125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-79852326258348936482012-07-21T21:04:00.000-04:002012-07-21T21:04:02.743-04:00Fruit of the Spirit: Margie and Self Control<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">this is last in the fruit of the spirit blog series. i've learned so much over the last ten weeks (supposed to be nine :/) thanks, karen, for giving me a place to express myself. someday maybe i'll have my own blog. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">check these out... prov16:32, 25:28 rom13:12-14, 1cor6:12, 9:25-27 1thess5:22 titus2:12 heb12:2, 2pet1:5-7 certainly there are more! found this... <span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://www.openbible.info/topics/self-control">http://www.openbible.info/topics/self-control</a></span> <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">just like the other eight beautiful fruit of the Spirit, you have the free gift of self-control at your access any time...a sweet deposit from Holy Spirit when you accepted Christ into your heart! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">it sounds easy, just use it. even david fell in this area. a man(or woman)after God's own heart. that's how i want to be known, don't you? <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">david was a man that could have benefited from the use of self-control, yet God called Him a man after His own heart. God is full of grace and mercy. david truly repented of his sin. God forgave him and used him in mighty and beautiful ways. (see 1&2sam 1kings 1chron) david didn't say "oh lord forgive me, i'm sorry...do you mind if i do it again tomorrow?" he fell on his face and completely turned from his sin. he changed his mind, yet still suffered consequence. he asked God to search his heart and lead him in the everlasting way. david fully surrendered to God. when repentance came, david changed.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">did you know that anger can be averted by using self-control? how about lust...drunkenness...pride...gossip...lies...laziness...judgement...peer pressure... people pleasing??? sometimes using self-control just looks like saying "no!"<i> (</i></span><i><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;">no temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it. 1cor10:13) </span></i><span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">or often i stomp my foot and say, "get out!" when bad thoughts come in.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">one. binge-ing. ahhhh i said it.(even if i can't spell it) one example: the other night i woke up 3am-ish, went to the kitchen, got a small glass of silk chocolate milk (that's pretty healthy, right? soy milk) and opened the bag of chipsahoy cookies. i pulled out 2, really good, i shrugged "two won't hurt" i thought. "yummy, just 2 more" mmhm. then, "two more? why not?" wow, delicious... i'm not sure if i had more that night, but more times that not i can't stop. ugh! or can i? oh yeah, self-control. i've got this, because He's got it. Holy Spirit, help me. at parties and other gatherings that seem to revolve around food, i just keep going back for one more "something". one more can't hurt, can it?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">two. social networking! this one is really hard, too! i am obsessed. i don't work as much in the summer. this opens up free reign iphone time. i absolutely love posting instagram pics, then posting them to facebook, and twitter. twitter connects me with people i respect and learn from in the christian world. facebook was my only connection with family and friends when we went to paris to get my sister who was gravely ill. God did so many amazing things while we were there, and i got to share it with the world. when God inspires me, i post it. when someone inspires me, i retweet it. i only use it for good, really. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">1.total lifestyle change for me here. when i want to take more food than i need, when i get up in the night, when i start to go for more...i will seek Him, worship&praise Him. i will speak life over myself! i am fully equipped to do this!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">2.i will take a break of unknown length from instagram, facebook, and twitter. every time i long to check my phone, i will long for and seek Jesus. I read the word. i will go on my bible app if i'm alone. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<i><span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;">i repent from these distractions from you, God. oh, how many hours have i missed with you, Jesus? how much time have i wasted? forgive me Lord. i want to waste my life on You. i want to hear Your voice more. i want to know Your word and carry it in my heart more. i want to be more sensitive to Your prompting and direction. forgive me for spending more time like a zombie than seeking and being with You. (</span></i><i><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 12pt;">that i may be filled with the knowledge of Your will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so that i will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please You in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and increasing in the knowledge of You, God; strengthened with all power, according to Your glorious might, for the attaining of all steadfastness and patience; joyously giving thanks to You, Father, who has qualified me to share in the inheritance of the saints in Light.col.3:9-12)</span></i><i><span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">to see and hear, to be aware of all the beautiful opportunities to really connect with people (my husband, daughter, the sister i live with, the one i don't, family, friends, strangers...) social networking has given me a great new connection with family and friends i would otherwise not connect with...this i will miss, but we can still reach each other! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">join me? i'm sure you are not over-indulgent where i am. where are you lacking self-control?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-family: Arial, sans-serif;">grace and peace to you, margie <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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gentleness...i have learned from Ali. when she was younger, she reminded me that it wasn't the cashiers fault when i was rude about not getting the price i expected. even now as her gentle spirit matures she reminds me to tap into this beautiful fruit of the Holy Spirit. i'm so proud of her for digging in and not just hearing, but doing! (james1:21-25) </div>
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like each piece of fruit, it is a choice to be gentle. God has provided all we need to walk in gentleness as a gift, freely given when we accepted Jesus into our hearts and called Him Lord! also, He reminds us to be gentle by sending gentle, godly, jesus-like people into our lives as an example. </div>
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(just a few of the many He's sent me... john, ali, chad, karen, mom, lorianne, theresa, christy, isaac, kim, lisa, dena, chris, kristen, brenda, brooke, tracy, jenn, kerry, patty, keith, jamie, cathi...sorry if you were left out, i could go on and on)<br />
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"Blessed are the GENTLE, for they shall inherit the earth. (Matthew 5:5 NASB)<br />
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In the same way, you wives, be submissive to your own husbands so that even if any of them are disobedient to the word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives, as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior. Your adornment must not be merely external-braiding the hair, and wearing gold jewelry, or putting on dresses; but let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the imperishable quality of a GENTLE and quiet spirit, which is precious in the sight of God. For in this way in former times the holy women also, who hoped in God, used to adorn themselves, being submissive to their own husbands; just as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, and you have become her children if you do what is right without being frightened by any fear. (1 Peter 3:1-6 NASB)<br />
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So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, GENTLEness and patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you. Beyond all these things put on love, which is the perfect bond of unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body; and be thankful. Let the word of Christ richly dwell within you, with all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with thankfulness in your hearts to God. Whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks through Him to God the Father. (Colossians 3:12-17 NASB)<br />
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Therefore I, the prisoner of the Lord, implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, with all humility and GENTLEness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. (Ephesians 4:1-3 NASB)</div>
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But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. (Galatians 5:22, 23 NASB)</div>
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it never fails! His word is faithful and true. He is faithful and just. His faithfulness is to all generations. it reaches to the sky.<br />
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*for me...given as a gift, a deposit made deep within me when i received the Holy Spirit, faithfulness is always available. i get to let His faithfulness work in and shine through me. like each piece of fruit, i can choose to be faithful. God has given us all we need to walk in the fruit of faithfulness.<br />
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faithful... to God <br />
to my husband <br />
to my family & friends<br />
to God's family<br />
to the lost<br />
to serve<br />
to love<br />
to the Word<br />
to abide<br />
to obey<br />
in prayer<br />
with my money<br />
with little<br />
with much<br />
with my time<br />
in good and bad times<br />
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i am not a ' thus sayith the Lord' kind of person. however, last year God said, "margie, you are loyal. that is good. don't let the world take it away from you." #sozo<br />
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1.strict or thorough in the performance of duty: a faithful worker.<br />
2.true to one's word, promises, vows, etc.<br />
3.steady in allegiance or affection; loyal; constant: faithful friends.<br />
4.reliable, trusted, or believed.<br />
5.adhering or true to fact, a standard, or an original; accurate: a faithful account; a faithful copy.<br />
6.Obs. full of faith; believing.<br />
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1.the faithful,<br />
2. the believers, especially members of a Christian church or adherents of Islam.<br />
3. the body of loyal members of any party or group.<br />
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1.faithful to one's sovereign, government, or state: a loyal subject.<br />
2.faithful to one's oath, commitments, or obligations: to be loyal to a vow.<br />
3.faithful to any leader, party, or cause, or to any person or thing conceived as deserving fidelity: a loyal friend.<br />
4.characterized by or showing faithfulness to commitments, vows, allegiance, obligations, etc.: loyal conduct.<br />
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i want to be faithful in this...<br />
"abiding is a wonderful discipline that teaches us to stay, to dwell, and to remain in the place of first love." graham cooke<br />
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kindness is a choice, like all the other fruit, it's a gift from God. a deposit when you received the Holy Spirit. you've already got everything you need to walk on kindness! </div>
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Do not be deceived, God is not mocked; for whatever a man sows, this he will also reap. (Galatians 6:7 NASB)</div>
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you simply cannot be kind or good if you're...holding unforgiveness, negative, angry, frustrated, grumpy, impatient...<br />
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if you notice someone's having a bad day...choose to brighten it. decide to smile, love, be joyful, walk in peace, be patient, show kindness and goodness... each fruit builds off the previous.<br />
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my encouragement to you: just smile at everyone on your path and see what happens!!! you could share your experience here if you like. i find it quite interesting the responses from just smiling at someone and being kind. try it! </div>
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One definition of kindness is <i>the desire to do good to others; goodwill; charitableness</i>. Do you know people who live like that? I sure do. A lot of them. I think most people, from every place, culture, religion, and nation, have the desire to be kind, to do good, to share, to be generous. The problem is, we also have free will and a fallen nature.<br />
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Kindness seems to be wrapped up in a lot of different things. I don't think one can love without also being kind. Kindness is a choice, each and every moment - the choice to love rather than to lash out, to give rather than keep, to do good rather than bad (however that is defined), to be kind instead of cruel. And, as with all of the other fruits, we do have it in us to be kind to even those who are the most unkind. And this isn't just about <i>doing</i> kindness. It's about asking God to show us how to be kind, how to treat others, how to think kind thoughts. It's not about doing kind things, it's about having an attitude and thoughts that are kind, toward others and about others. The world may think you are the kindest person ever, but if your heart and mind are not in agreement with your actions, you and God need to have a little talk.<br />
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Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. ~ Colossians 3:12<br />
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So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. ~ Matthew 7:12karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-12765730803881427762012-06-11T19:41:00.000-04:002012-06-11T19:41:40.763-04:00Special Guest Post: Patience revisitedGod has been so graciously patient with us, why then are we impatient with Him, ourselves & others?<br />
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“Let nothing perturb you, nothing frighten you. All things pass. God does not change. Patience achieves everything.” ~ Mother Teresa<br />
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...walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. (Ephesians 4:1-3 NASB) [wow love, peace, patience, & gentleness]<br />
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The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. (2 Peter 3:9 NIV84)<br />
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Have you been practicing patience? It's a gift! Receive it, put it into practice today!</div>
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it seems each piece of fruit, so far, can't survive without the previous. without the first 3 (love.joy.peace) the 4th isn't possible.<br />
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<li>i can't be patient if i don't love the cashier in the slowest line at walmart. (<i>eph4:2 Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. 1cor13:4 love is patient...</i>) </li>
<li>it isn't possible to be patient when i allow 3 red lights in a row on owen road to suck the joy out of me. (<i>heb.12:2</i>) </li>
<li>without His peace, when worries are the focus, patience is nowhere in sight. (<i>phil.4:6</i>) </li>
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life deals us plenty of hands that are full of opportunities to practice this gift called patience. it's on the list of delicious fruit, given as a deposit when we receive Holy Spirit. the Word says we can have it. don’t be afraid to start asking for it. you'll get it! the more practice you get, the more natural patience becomes. besides, what would we need patience for if everything went perfectly the way we want it?<br />
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how are you doing in the patience department?<br />
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Oh, I've been waiting, somewhat impatiently, for this week's fruit. How's that for a paradox (not to mention that it's Thursday already)? In fact, this whole post may be a paradox to some of you, but stick with me. <br />
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It truly was hard to not write this one sooner and just wait for it to post. But I chose to be patient. Hopefully, I'll be able to remember where I wanted to go with it.<br />
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I'm sure you've heard this. <i>"Don't pray for patience. If you do, you've be given opportunities to be patient."</i> Well meaning people have said this for years. The idea behind it: If you pray for patience, you will get in the slowest line, hit every red light, hear from every long-winded friend when you have somewhere else to go, run into the most annoying situations... you get the idea. You will run into every imaginable test of patience.<br />
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To that, I say phooey.<span style="font-size: xx-small;"> (<i>Sorry for the harsh language, but some things just have to be said.</i>) </span><br />
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Several years ago, when I was still pretty new to this Christian/loving Jesus thing, I went on a shopping trip with a couple of friends. Now, if you know me at all, you know that I vehemently dislike to shop, especially for myself. We were on a specific mission to find something, but we didn't know exactly what yet. So we stopped for lunch to talk about it and I prayed before we ate. During the prayer, I asked for patience to get through the day, among other things. At the end of the prayer, they both said,<i> "Did you really just pray for patience? You know what that means!" </i> Of course, I had heard the saying before that, but didn't really think about that so I felt kind of bad about it. Thinking the shopping trip was about to be ruined, I put on my best face and we went about our day.<br />
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You know what? That was one of the best shopping excursions I had ever had. So I say phooey to not praying for patience.<br />
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<i>"Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened. “Which of you, if his son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!"</i> ~ Matthew 7:7-11 (also found in Luke 11)</blockquote>
Why would God, who loves me and has placed His Spirit within me, deny me something that He has already promised me? Remember Galatians 5:21-22?<br />
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Again, I say phooey. We've already got it anyway, so ask away! A loving God, who cares for the sparrows, is not going to let you down! Will there be times when our patience is tested? Of course! But if we sincerely ask God for it, and choose to be patient in inconvenient and testing times, we will receive it!<br />
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Now, patience in waiting on God... well, that's another subject.<br />
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I don't know about you, but when I take a glance at the world around me, peace is not the first word that comes to my mind.<br />
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Chaos<br />
Turmoil<br />
Injustice<br />
Hate<br />
Anger<br />
Bitterness<br />
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Worry<br />
Anxiety<br />
Rage<br />
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Peace doesn't seem to come easily for most folks, even for many who consider themselves Christians. Focusing on what's directly in front of them is easier than looking deeper to find the peace they long for. Philippians 4 reminds us not to worry - but to pray, asking God, thankfully for what we need, and He will give us peace. Peace is a fruit of the Spirit. Therefore, <i>we already have it</i>. We just need to grab hold of it.<br />
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Jesus left us His peace. That "I'm-going-to-be-okay-because-I-know-the-Father-is-with-me" kind of peace that is beyond our comprehension. When the world is saying <i>"WHY AREN'T YOU FREAKING OUT?!?!?"</i>, we can confidently say it's because God loves us enough to give us what we need to get through what we need to get through, even if it doesn't look how we think it should.<br />
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"I'm leaving you peace. I’m giving you my peace. I don’t give you the kind of peace that the world gives. So don’t be troubled or cowardly." ~ John 14:27</blockquote>
But wait... where does this peace come from? Jesus said these words, so we know they are true. But he's leaving (did you catch that in the first part?). He's not going to be around to calm the seas in the midst of the storm. If we look back a verse...<br />
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"The helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you everything. He will remind you of everything that I have ever told you." ~John 14:26</blockquote>
So, this peace that Jesus is leaving for us, it comes with Holy Spirit. Because He is in us, we have access to the peace that Jesus offers. <br />
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Once you grab on to peace, hold on to it! Don't let it slip away in a sea of anxiety and worry. Don't lose it in the midst of an argument. Don't misplace it when the storm winds come. When you have a hold of something loosely, it can easily slip away. When you embrace something, you hold on for dear life, as if letting go would let it fall out of reach forever. Embrace peace - don't let it get away!<br />
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take it, it's yours! </span><span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">more ramblings...</span><i><span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 16pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></i></div>
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rejoice in the Lord always.i will say it again: Rejoice! let your gentleness be
evident to all. the Lord is near. do not be anxious about anything, but in
everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to
God. and the PEACE of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your
hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
v.8-9 finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever
is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if
anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things. whatever you
have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me—put it into practice.
and the God of PEACE will be with you.</span></i><b><span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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<b><span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt;">confession1</span></b><span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt;">: phil4:4-9 is my 'go to' scripture for peace. surely i sound like a broken
record to people in my life, sharing it with every one. walking through this
journey called life, i've not met anyone (yet) who always keeps their peace,
but my heart and mind are convinced that it is possible. it takes practice!
pray...read it...do it...read&pray some more...it works. i promise! the key is doing it! <i>(don't just listen to
God's word. you must do what it says. otherwise, you are only fooling
yourselves. james 1:22 nlt)<o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">my encouragement to you is dig in. really tear it
apart, bit by bit, then walk it out. this is biblical principle with <b><i>two</i></b><i>
</i>promises of God's peace. (<a href="http://therabbitholechronicles.wordpress.com/2012/05/31/peace-be-with-you-ii/" target="_blank">christy covered v.6-7 beautifully</a>, so back up a
bit) start right off with with the rejoicing part, you get to do that twice
right off the bat! <i>(phil4:4)</i> then carry it out until the end<i> (v.9). </i>the
more i do this, the easier and more natural it becomes. peace is a gift, it's
always available to you. it came with Holy Spirit the day you accepted Christ
as your Lord and Saviour! (if you haven't, it would be my pleasure to share
this truth with you) <i><o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<b><span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">confession2</span></b><span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">: i didn't keep my peace a few times today, however, as i become more
sensitive to Holy Spirit, seeking peace (ps34:14), changing my thinking
(phil4:8-9), capturing negative thoughts <i>(we demolish arguments&every
pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take
captive every thought to make it obedient to christ.2cor10:5)</i> is becoming a
much easier process these days. i have many daily opportunities to practice! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">so seek peace and pursue it! <i>(the one who
desires life, to love and see good days, must keep his tongue from evil and his
lips from speaking deciet. he must turn away from evil and do good; he must
seek peace and pursue it.1peter3:10-11 &ps34:13-14niv</i>) its right there
anytime you need need it. besides, worrying can't add a day to your life. as a
matter of fact, it takes days off. worry makes you sick! <i>(can any one of you
by worrying add a single hour to your life?...do not worry about tomorrow, for
tomorow will worry about itself. each day has enough trouble of its own.
matt6:27-34niv. you should read the whole thing) <o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">i believe two opposites of peace are
worry&fear.<i> (perfect love drives out fear 1jn4:18 but i'll save that for
another time)<o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;">if you desire peace, if you regularly think,
"if i could just have some peace," go get it! it's yours for the
taking! like joy from last week, its not about your circumstances. you can have
peace in the storm! Jesus said it, so i know it's true!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span lang="EN" style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 115%;"><i style="font-size: small; line-height: normal; text-align: center;"><a href="http://beautyintheletgo.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">there is beauty in letting go</a> ~ <a href="http://therabbitholechronicles.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">the rabbit hole chronicles</a> ~ <a href="http://www.ajoyfuljournal.com/" target="_blank">a joyful journal</a> ~ <a href="http://tecthought.com/" target="_blank">the ever-changing thought</a> ~ <a href="http://www.brokenrubies.com/" target="_blank">broken rubies</a> ~ <a href="http://byfeetorheart.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">by feet or heart</a> ~ <a href="http://apopiptolepis.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">apopipto lepis</a></i>
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<br />karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-33596482059485794492012-05-28T11:16:00.001-04:002012-05-28T11:16:55.710-04:00Special Guest Bog: joy - calm delight?<i>Here's another post from my sister Margie. Hope you enjoy it... </i><br />
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ramblings about the fruit of the spirit called JOY...<br />
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i used to be more of an outwardly joyful person. it was obvious when i was enthusiastic, excited or happy. life's junk seemed to rob me of my joy(or so i thought). circumstances set my attitude bar. i also thought that other people, i.e. john, were supposed to make me happy. once i figured out that no one was responsible for my joy except me, i decided to do it on my own. it was exhausting! i just couldn’t keep it up. i thought i was disappointing God because i didn't seem 'happy/joyful' all the time. if happiness wasn't pouring out of me, others would not be drawn to Jesus, right?<br />
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one day in my car, joyce told me that joy means 'calm delight.' this was really hard to believe. i knew when i 'felt' joyful, it certainly was not calm. delightful, maybe, but not calm. joyce must have really missed it. i mean, i had lead bible studies on joy, spoke and sang about it often, but still had not experienced anything very calm.<br />
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i was on the wrong track: mixing up happiness, which depends on my circumstances... with joy, which is a deep knowing that can only be found in Holy Spirit. joy comes from the heart of God. it is a deposit when we receive the Holy Spirit. all this i knew, yet still i was not getting the 'high' of outward joy.<br />
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do you know what joy means in the bible? you guessed it...'calm delight.' how could this be? there it is, joyce was right, as usual.<br />
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i don't have to perform for God or others to show my joy. what a great relief. He says i can have this calm delight at any time. even in the midst of trials that joy is accessible. i still have explosive joy-filled moments! i can't help it. God is so good, always. <br />
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praising and worshiping Him stirs up my joy. He doesn't need to be reminded of His awesomeness, but i do!<br />
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<i>(oh yeah, joyce is joyce meyer. she's pretty wise.)</i><br />
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joy is expressed many different ways in the bible: shouts, songs, clapping, dancing, praising, celebrating...in exchange for sadness and mourning, in fullness, in His presence... open up the word of God and read it! it's full of JOY and so are you! just start counting your blessings and see if that doesn't bring delight.<br />
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as you journey along life's road, stir up the joy within and deposit it in the people you meet along the way. wear your smile!<br />
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<i>(Oh, and today's quote from joyce: keeping “self” happy is a full time job, but the pay at the end of the week is disappointing.)</i></div>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-43326577191836742612012-05-25T13:11:00.002-04:002012-05-25T13:11:18.943-04:00Fruit of the Spirit: Joy<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Many years ago my parents gave me a book for my birthday, or maybe it was Christmas - I'm not really sure and the occasion doesn't really matter. The book was called <i>My Friend the Bluebird Who Lost His Song</i>. This was a cute story about a little bluebird who has lost his song (duh). The bluebird goes to the window of a little girl and asks for help. Taking her friends along for the adventure, they find the bluebird's song and everyone lives happily ever after.<br />
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Cute story, right? What was really fun about it was that I was the little girl in the story, and my friends were the other characters. Well, my friends and my pets - guess I didn't have enough friends to fill in all the spaces. Hey - we lived in the country and had 3 houses near us. I was blessed to have the two friends I did have.<br />
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The story was a fun adventure that had us shrinking and riding on the bluebird's back on the great quest to find the lost song, only to discover that the song was right where it had always been, but deep down inside the bluebird. Whew. Crisis averted.<br />
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You may be wondering, what does this have to do with the fruit of the spirit? Well, I thought I'd retell that story with a little twist...<br />
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Once there was a little bluebird who was quite sad. One day, he went to the window of a little girl named Karen, and said, "Little girl, I seem to have lost my joy. Can you help me find it?" Karen replied, "Why, of course I will help you! Do you mind if I ask my friends to come along?" "That would be wonderful!", replied the bluebird.<br />
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So Karen, along with <a href="http://beautyintheletgo.blogspot.com/">Ali</a>, <a href="http://therabbitholechronicles.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Christy</a>, <a href="http://www.ajoyfuljournal.com/" target="_blank">Lauren</a>, <a href="http://tecthought.com/" target="_blank">Scott</a>, <a href="http://www.brokenrubies.com/">Babetta</a>, <a href="http://byfeetorheart.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Leslie</a>, <a href="http://outloudinmyhead.blogspot.com/search/label/sister" target="_blank">Margie</a>, <a href="http://outloudinmyhead.blogspot.com/search/label/mom" target="_blank">Judy</a>, and <a href="http://apopiptolepis.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Carl</a>, went out with the bluebird to see if they could find his joy.<br />
They looked all over.<br />
They looked in many of the places the bluebird liked to visit. <br />
They looked under his wings but his joy wasn't there.<br />
They looked in bluebird's nest but his joy wasn't there. <br />
They looked around his favorite birdbath but his joy wasn't there. <br />
They looked in the field he liked to fly over but his joy wasn't there. <br />
They looked at his favorite bird feeder bu his joy wasn't there. <br />
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Where, oh where, could he have left his joy?<br />
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They asked the bluebird, "When did you last have your joy?"<br />
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"I remember soaring high in the sky, like I've seen the eagles do, and I began singing a song I'd never sung before. I had such a delight in my heart that I just couldn't explain. Why can't I feel that again?" The bluebird seemed more distraught than ever. <br />
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Then the friends all remembered at the same time "Oh, why didn't we think of this sooner?"<br />
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The friends explained to the bluebird that he had what he needed all along. All he had to do was to ask Jesus, and to choose joy. Joy isn't about how you feel, but it's an overall attitude about everything. Take each moment and find the joy in it, even in the trials and hard times. If nothing else, Jesus is with you and that should be enough for you to find joy. <br />
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Then the bird flew off, soaring like an eagle and singing a new song, just like before.<br />
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He found his joy. Have you?</blockquote>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-63853894905481676492012-05-20T13:02:00.000-04:002012-05-20T13:02:00.120-04:00Special Guest Blog: Love Notes from MargieHere are some more thoughts from my lovely sister, Margie.<br />
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<li>Dog is God spelled backwards, just sayin'. It's pretty cool how you can yell at your dog, or ignore them, but still they are so excited to see you every time you come home! Be excited like that when your spouse comes home or when someone visits. It's a choice!</li>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i><a href="http://beautyintheletgo.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">there is beauty in letting go</a> ~ <a href="http://therabbitholechronicles.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">the rabbit hole chronicles</a> ~ <a href="http://www.ajoyfuljournal.com/" target="_blank">a joyful journal</a> ~ <a href="http://tecthought.com/" target="_blank">the ever-changing thought</a> ~ <a href="http://www.brokenrubies.com/" target="_blank">broken rubies</a> ~ <a href="http://byfeetorheart.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">by feet or heart</a> ~ <a href="http://apopiptolepis.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">apopipto lepis</a></i></span></div>
</ul>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-80536946114635878472012-05-20T07:30:00.000-04:002012-05-20T07:30:02.131-04:00Special Guest Blog: Love Like That<i>And another special guest arrives. I've also known this woman my whole life. She's also taught me a lot about love. Meet my sister, Margie. If you know her, you're already exited to read on. If you don't, you will know a lot about her just by reading these thoughts. I'm honored to have her a part of this series. You'll definitely be seeing more from her in the coming weeks.</i><br />
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i was invited to join in on a "fruit of the spirit" blog series by an amazing woman, my sister. i am joining some inspirational bloggers.<br />
<span lang="EN">so this is my freshman attempt at blogging, without a blog. after attempting this on my iphone, i’m borrowing karen's cute little net book she bought for romania. thanks karen!<br />
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could i do something (or not do something) that would cause Him to love me less?<br />
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i realize that you most likely know this, but do we really live in this truth? the truth that we cannot do one thing to make God love us more, and nothing we do would cause Him to love us less. i am still amazed by this truth. (this, of course, is no excuse for intentional sin)</blockquote>
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Jesus says, "what good is it if you love those that are easy to love...the lovable? even the unsaved do that. great is your reward if you choose to love the unlovable!"(ok, that's my paraphrase of matthew 5)<br />
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<span style="color: #990000;">vs.43-48 You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect.</span></blockquote>
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i really like eugene peterson's paraphrase on how to love...<br />
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that seems pretty clear to me... and there is more. every time i read the WORD i learn more about God's extravagant love. if we are to learn a life of love then put it into practice, and if God is the one who tells us to do that, then surely he will equip us! i know that i am not capable on my own, in my own strength, but Holy Spirit in me is more than enough to do it through me!</blockquote>
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the truths are endless... 1cor 13, john 3:16, all of Ephesians, the cross, the resurrection, song of solomon, love your neighbor, the golden rule, Jesus came to serve as an example for us, jesus poured his love out on me so i better pour it out on others...</blockquote>
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i've been doing a self-check... are there people i hide from when i'm shopping at walmart? do i smile at the cashier, the person on the gas pump opposite me, the person holding up my check-out lane, new people at church? the folks i don't "approve" of? the person who hurt me deeply? the lost and broken? the angry, the hurting? do i ever speak to my neighbor?<br />
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<a href="http://beautyintheletgo.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">there is beauty in letting go</a> ~ <a href="http://therabbitholechronicles.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">the rabbit hole chronicles</a> ~ <a href="http://www.ajoyfuljournal.com/" target="_blank">a joyful journal</a> ~ <a href="http://tecthought.com/" target="_blank">the ever-changing thought</a> ~ <a href="http://www.brokenrubies.com/" target="_blank">broken rubies</a> ~ <a href="http://byfeetorheart.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">by feet or heart</a> ~ <a href="http://apopiptolepis.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">apopipto lepis</a></div>
<br /></div>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-48612327412414004942012-05-20T01:05:00.001-04:002012-05-20T01:05:37.747-04:00Special Guest Blog: Mom's Thoughts on Love<div>
<i>It's time to introduce you to a very special woman. One I've known my whole life. Even when I was at my most unlovable, she loved me anyway. I think that's the most important thing I've learned from my mom. These are her thoughts on love. This was an unexpected addition to the blog this week, and I hope we hear more from her. </i></div>
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I have been reading a lot about love. I never realized there was so much to it. For me love seems to be easy, yet difficult. The first instinct for me is to love. Sometimes that is dangerous. It can be hurtful if the love isn't returned. But if some of the things I have been reading are true, and I think they are, then love should be the first thing that comes to mind when you meet someone for the first time and for all the times you meet them after that. There is a lot of love in my family. I see it and feel it every day. My family has become my life. Although I have friends at Millpond (the Manor) my life has been changed, altered, by my family. And as some very famous people have declared.....</blockquote>
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All you need is love, love is all you need.</blockquote>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-9218728380392034132012-05-19T19:16:00.000-04:002012-05-19T19:17:19.496-04:00Love Glasses<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">If only it were so easy... just put some gadget on and you will see the world differently. Change your glasses, put on different shoes, wear different clothes, walk down a different street.... some of these things may work for a time, but they aren't permanent. </span><br />
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This came on the iPod today and since it's love week here on the blog, I thought I'd share it. <br />
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Don't get me wrong. There's not a thing wrong with trying something to help remember to see folks as God sees them. It just doesn't last unless we're letting God love them through us. As hard as we try, we will always fall short. Otherwise, we wouldn't need Him.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">"Keep truth seeking, listen to wisdom speaking, catch his heartbeat and see the world through Gods eyes!"</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">"God give us grace to see all things, To see man's heart the way You see" ~ Beckah Shae</span><br />
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<li>Love really is patient.</li>
<li>It's impossible to love something that can't love you back.</li>
<li>Just because something/someone can love you back, it doesn't mean they will. Love them anyway.</li>
<li>Sometimes it's harder to receive love than it is to give it. Sometimes it's the other way around.</li>
<li>There are times when it's easier to love a stranger than it is to love those closest to you.</li>
<li>Love is hard to measure. </li>
<li>Love is a choice.</li>
<li>Talking about loving and actually loving are very different. The former is much easier, less risky, and way, I mean way, less painful.</li>
<li>You can learn a lot about love from a dog. Not so much from a cat. (This might get me some hate mail)</li>
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<li>Love is a fruit in season at all times, and within reach of every hand. - Mother Teresa</li>
<li>First, love God. Second, love everyone else. The rest will fall into place - just don't get the order mixed up.</li>
<li>Love hurts sometimes, but it's worth it. </li>
<li>There's always someone within reach that needs to know what love really is.</li>
<li>God loves me, so it's okay if you choose not to. </li>
<li>It's all about love, love, love, love, love. Thanks Steven Curtis Chapman. That part of that song is all I could remember all week, and it's stuck in my head.</li>
<li>It's hard to love someone when all you see is their faults. </li>
<li>Love doesn't change based on circumstances.</li>
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What about you? What thoughts run through your head when you think about love?karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-18350872497960297842012-05-14T21:37:00.000-04:002012-05-14T21:37:19.077-04:00Fruit of the Spirit: Love{Love. Who came up with the idea to put love first? I mean, where do I start? When I think about love, I either sit here, staring off into space thinking, "uhhhhhh, ummmmm, uhhhhh, yeah". Or, my mind reels with a gazillion thoughts that never really form into anything. I've written about love before. Do I really have to again? I mean, you get it, right?<br />
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Sigh.<br />
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I'll do it.}<br />
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On to the real blog now.<br />
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In case you haven't stopped by in a while (and why would you, unless you like watching paint dry), this is the first in a blog series on the fruit of the spirit. I have some friends coming along to share their thoughts on the fruit, too. More about them later. If you're bored here and want to know more, they are all linked on the side bar, and some of them are on top of it and have already posted.<br />
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Today as I was driving to work, I was thinking about this word love and how poorly I've been doing it lately. On the outside I can go through the motions with the best of 'em. But on the inside, I'm doing what's right. It's not what comes naturally. Not yet anyway. I want to have that instant "what can I do to love this person more" reaction in every situation. Don't you? Maybe you already do that, but I think we can all fall short sometimes, so don't think I'm beating myself up here.<br />
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Jesus loved in every moment. I want to be like Him. He got it right. I mean, when one of your names is Love, how can you not just automatically bleed love? <br />
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Where does that leave me? My name isn't Love.<br />
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But Love is in me. He has placed His love in me so I can let it flow out of me. This reminds me of a thought I had recently. God doesn't give us anything we're to keep for ourselves. He gives it to us so we can give it, share it, explain it, express it, nurture it and let it go, learn from it.<br />
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I am not Love, like He is. But I am His beloved. Cherished. Loved. His love in me is not just for me. It is in me so I can give it, share it, explain it, express it, nurture it and let it go, and learn from it. I'm still learning.<br />
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I have a feeling there will be more on this subject this week. Stay tuned. In the mean time, check out these blogs from earlier today: <a href="http://beautyintheletgo.blogspot.com/2012/05/fruit-of-spirit-love.html" target="_blank">there is beauty in letting go</a>, <a href="http://ajoyfuljournal.blogspot.com/2012/05/love-fruit-of-spirt-series.html" target="_blank">a joyful journal</a>, <a href="http://therabbitholechronicles.wordpress.com/2012/05/14/introducing-a-new-blog-series/" target="_blank">the rabbit hole chronicles</a><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: xx-small;">...Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!</span></i><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><br /></span></i>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-46967026178045577342012-05-09T22:39:00.000-04:002012-05-09T22:40:01.569-04:00Fruit of the Spirit: A Blog SeriesThis is something new for me. I had the idea to write a series of blog posts on a particular subject. Since I haven't been writing much lately, I thought it would be a good jump start to get back into the habit. I started talking with a friend about it, and there were so many questions to answer...<br />
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What subject?<br />
When should I post?<br />
Should it be daily? Weekly?<br />
What if I forget?<br />
What if I'm not inspired?<br />
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Then I thought... why put so much pressure on myself? Just have others post as guest bloggers on your site! Brilliant!<br />
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But that defeats the purpose of me actually <i>writing</i>. So then it hit me, do the series, but bring someone along for the accountability and inspiration to keep going. So I asked someone, and then someone else, and then another, and so on. So now what we have is several bloggers participating in this series, and I'm super excited about it!<br />
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Over the next few weeks, I'll be introducing you to their blogs. Some are people I've known my whole life, others I've just met, and the rest fall in between there somewhere. Some I know in real life, others just on-line. But what's really cool about it, is we all love Jesus. He's the reason we're doing this. He's the reason we write. He's the reason we live. He's the reason we take our next breath. Without Him, none of this matters.<br />
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Starting next week, we'll all be starting a series on the fruit of the spirit. Each week, a different fruit, starting with love next week. Feel free to join in on the fun. <br />
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<i><span style="font-size: x-small;">...Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!</span></i>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-88170095342329233692012-03-24T17:01:00.000-04:002012-03-24T17:02:21.701-04:00Can You Believe It?<span style="font-family: inherit;">Was in my first 5k today with some people from work. You may be asking the question that I've asked myself for weeks...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Yeah. I didn't run the whole thing, but I think I did maybe half of it, and finished it in around 42 minutes. That's pretty good for this girl who couldn't run at all as a kid without running out of breath in about a minute. Don't get me wrong, I still huff and puff a lot, but I guess that's ok when you're 40-something. </span><span style="font-family: inherit;">I'm not sure how many participated overall, and I wanted to write this while it was fresh in my mind so I'm not waiting until the results show up on the website. </span><br />
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One interesting thing happened shortly after the race started. I was moving along, and people were everywhere. It was a little overwhelming, but I made it through that part (I really didn't know what to expect at the start of a race. It can be a bit chaotic if you've never done it before). I was listening to music, which not only motivates but also helps drown out the aforementioned huffing and puffing. I was probably about 1/4 mile in, and I heard the lyrics in my ears....<br />
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<i>With my feet off the ground I'm gonna praise You<br />
With this love I have found, I'm gonna tell the world<br />
The reason I dance is 'cause You saved me<br />
Yes You saved me, yes You saved me</i></blockquote>
And here's where it got odd. I mean, interesting is what I said before so let's go with that. I started to cry. Not just a few tears, but I was trying with all my might to not sob out loud.<br />
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At first glance, they don't seem like words that would make a person cry, do they? Not to me either. I've listened to that song a whole bunch of times and I'm pretty sure I never cried before. Have you ever tried to run while you're crying? It is NOT easy. <br />
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Then, it hit me. One year ago I was in Romania (can you believe it?). I was holding babies. I was walking up hill at some point that day (that's just a given - everything is up hill) and I know I couldn't keep up, and I'm sure I was doing a lot of that huffing and puffing I mentioned before. I'm pretty sure that it was one year ago today (or tomorrow) that we walked up to the <strike>Hollywood</strike>, I mean Brasov sign and the man I passed told me I was "last in line". <a href="http://outloudinmyhead.blogspot.com/2011/03/never-alone.html" target="_blank">Then I wrote this</a>.<br />
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Today, I realized that I'm not last in line any more. Not physically, not emotionally, not spiritually. Oh I know I wasn't <i>really</i> last then, but my perception at the time was just that. Last. I also know that I'm certainly not first now.<br />
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As I pulled myself together, I found myself running and praising God and thanking him for how far he has brought me in the last year. He did save me. Once many years ago he saved me from me, and last year, he saved me from Meningitis (whether you believe I was saved by the healing hand of God or the miracle of modern medicine, He did save me). And of course, that made me cry more, and a few of those sobs I was trying to hold in escaped. If you're new here or have forgotten what happened, <a href="http://outloudinmyhead.blogspot.com/2011/04/perfect-storm.html" target="_blank">check out this post</a>. I did eventually manage to pull myself together for the majority of the run though.<br />
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Toward the end of the race - maybe 1/2 mile from the end of the race, I passed a man on the side of the road. Unlike the man who saw my defeat in Romania, this man spoke to my potential. He said,<br />
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It's amazing what that little bit of encouragement did for my drive to finish. I'd like to say I sprinted the rest of the way, but I didn't, but I did have a little more spring in my step. (This is a a great place to pause and remind you that death and life are in the power of the tongue, and something so powerful should be used with extreme care - there's your less for today).<br />
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As I turned the corner to cross the finish line, I scanned quickly the crowd for the rest of our team from work. I didn't see them, but I decided to sprint to the finish line and then look for them. Right before I crossed the finish line, I heard someone call my name. Once again, I knew I wasn't alone. My team was waiting for me, once again - just like the team waited at the top of the hill in Romania. But this time, I celebrated and, once again, fought back the tears.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">Oh, that song up there is "Let it Out" by Worth Dying For, in case you were curious.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;">Update: Looks like just over 700 participants in the race, and I was #423 - official time 41:37.7. I'll take it!</span>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-72163911117886508202012-01-10T21:49:00.000-05:002012-01-10T21:51:21.359-05:00Let Your Little Light Shine<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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</tbody></table>The moon was phenomenal last night. It was big, it was full, and just beautiful. Since I don't have a clue how to take a picture of it worth showing to anyone (and of course, no camera), I borrowed a similar image from a friend.<br />
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I found myself actually hoping for a blackout, so I could see just how brightly it was shining. Then I remembered - the moon doesn't shine. It reflects it's light off the sun. Oh yeah. I'm supposed to do that too, only my light is a reflection of the Son, not the sun. The sun's light just make my skin glow and turn red. But the Son's light, it chases away the darkness and burns deep into my soul. The difference is, the Son's light can penetrate so deeply within me that I begin to shine as well. I guess this kind of a Son burn is good for you.<br />
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Sometimes, in the daylight the moon is still visible, but it never shines as bright as the sun. And the Son will always shine brighter that those He is reflecting off of. We have to remember that when we think our own light is shining. We don't have our own light. We are full of darkness until the light of the Son comes in. So sit in the light of the Son for a while, and then go out and shine!karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-49184305596570774242011-12-30T19:19:00.000-05:002011-12-30T19:19:36.919-05:00Almost there...<div>
Moses fascinates me. Here's this guy who, by a strange set of circumstances, is watching his own people being mistreated as slaves in Egypt. He gets angry, kills a guy, then runs to the hills. Along comes a burning bush and turns his whole world upside down. He resists, as much as he can, the call on his life. He has a little debate with God about why he can't do what God is asking him to do. But, as usual, God wins and Moses becomes something he thought he could never be.<br />
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Fast forward a bit, and we find Moses at the end of Aaron's life, and God's telling him he's not going to make it to the Promised Land either. So what does ol' Mo do? He throws a tantrum, runs and hides in a cave and has a good old fashioned shouting match with God.<br />
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Wait... that's not right. He goes back to the Israelites and keeps leading them, knowing full well that he was not going to reap the benefits of all that time in the desert. Personally, being almost there, I think I may have opted for the shouting match.<br />
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The important thing is that we never stop...<br />
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Whatever it is God is calling us to do, we have to do it. And then, we have to keep doing it. Even if we think it's not going to turn out as we had planned.<br />
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Especially when we think it's not going to turn out as we had planned.</div>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-57803202916780019342011-12-24T22:00:00.000-05:002011-12-26T21:16:27.938-05:00Only with God: Angels<div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: left;">
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An angel appeared to Mary.<br />
An angel appeared to Joseph.<br />
An angel appeared to shepherds.<br />
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Each time, "don't be afraid" were among the first words spoken. </div>
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"Give glory to God in heaven, and on earth let there be peace among the people who please God." Luke 2:14</div>
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Sometimes you can read a passage a hundred times and miss something all together. I don't know if I've read the Christmas story a hundred times, but I've heard and read it a lot. And guess what? I still don't completely get it. Seems every year something new jumps off the page, keeping the Word of God alive. Have you read it lately? Go ahead. Read it. I'll wait here for you. </div>
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What struck me today as I read of the encounter between the angel, the heavenly host (or as some translations say, an angelic choir, many other angels, the armies of heaven) and the shepherds. Peace on earth for those who please God. I realize not every translation reads that way, but what a great reminder of how we should live. Want peace? Live your life to please him. How do we do that? </div>
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Only with God...</div>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1983481412375043446.post-3817818873535369602011-12-24T21:00:00.000-05:002011-12-26T21:16:27.933-05:00Only With God: Magi<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Where does a new star that appears in the sky come from?<div>
How does it seem to move, beckoning those who see it to follow?<br />Why would men, sometimes referred to as wise, actually choose to follow it?</div>
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Only with God...</div>karenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11291790717549955254noreply@blogger.com0